Je suis dans une nouvelle formation où tous mes camarades sont hypersociables. C’est très perturbant.
"When my folks sent me off to ye olde fancy college, we all had the idea that this was going to teach me how to be “comfortable” in a whole different atmosphere. I would learn the secret handshake, and maybe a few of the special words they said at the yacht club.
Far more important, though, was getting comfortable with being uncomfortable. Rather than learning what goes on, you realize almost nobody really knows. That people figure stuff out as they go. You don’t “learn” how to go to Harvard Law or pitch for the Yankees. You realize that the people who do those things have to figure it out. That stumbling and bumbling is normal. You become less self-conscious about it, which is really liberating.
That’s the ultimate privilege in a lot of ways.”